{"id":1161823,"date":"2023-04-21T10:08:30","date_gmt":"2023-04-21T17:08:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/?p=1161823"},"modified":"2024-01-09T20:36:51","modified_gmt":"2024-01-10T04:36:51","slug":"desiree-staples-its-what-she-would-have-wanted","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/desiree-staples-its-what-she-would-have-wanted\/","title":{"rendered":"Desiree Staples Rediscovered Her ’90s Childhood by Filming in the Home She Grew Up In"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desiree Staples is the executive producer, co-creator and a star of “It’s What She Would Have Wanted.” Below, she describes her very personal experience with the film<\/em>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For many of us, our first experience of loss is leaving our childhood home. And it never gets easy, no matter how old we are when it happens. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In 2019, my mom decided it was time to sell our house in Laguna Hills, California.  It just so happened that around this time, we were looking for the perfect place to film \u201cIt\u2019s What She Would Have Wanted,\u201d a proof-of-concept short for an episodic series that I was starring in and producing about a group of women who must honor a pledge they made when they were kids. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And what better place to film than an actual home with the artifacts of a teenage girl who grew up in the ’90s? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The actual house Desiree Staples grew up in, and where she filmed “It’s What She Would Have Wanted.”<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Desiree Staples on ‘It’s What She Would Have Wanted’<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s What She Would Have Wanted\u201d is filled with the complexities of adulthood \u2013 grief, loss, growing up. But at its core is the comforting nostalgia we feel when we spend time with old friends \u2013 filled with memories of blanket forts, pillow fights, and secret pact making. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The film opens with an ominous promise from the unseen Deb: \u201cI, Debra Ashley Coleman, hereby swear, that in the event of the untimely death of Sam (Chris Lee<\/a>), Julia (Kimia Behpoornia<\/a>), Maggie (Marie Semla<\/a>), Steph (Desiree Staples<\/a>), or Camille (Lindsay Chambers<\/a>), I will do everything in my power to destroy all evidence of any earthly secrets they may have had. I make this promise on my life. May we all be friends forever.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Deb\u2019s own untimely passing brings these friends together as they follow through on their decades-old commitment.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The cast of “It’s What She Would Have Wanted.”<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

We filmed the entire short over the course of two and a half days \u2014 all in one location. The majority of the cast and crew even slept at the house during filming, which really transported me back to many an epic birthday slumber party. If there\u2019s anything you need to know about me and my mom, it\u2019s that we know how to throw a birthday bash! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

By using my real house, we were able to use authentic childhood items and photos, which created an exciting production design experience. All the pictures of “childhood” Deb are actually of yours truly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The ’90s Live in ‘It’s What She Would Have Wanted’<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Creating Deb\u2019s bedroom and preserving the authenticity of a childhood escape was the most extensive design task of the film and required many days of prep. We painted the room olive green before we shot. And our brilliantly talented production designer, <\/strong>Maren H. Jensen<\/a>, had us find every single pink object in the house to give the room an innocent feel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It turned out amazing, but my mother was not very pleased by our rearranging!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Apart from Deb\u2019s bedroom, the shots in other parts of the house stayed true to its existing look. Our favorite location outside of the bedroom had to be the pool. In one scene, the girls burn Deb\u2019s diary and the director, Nate Trinrud<\/a>, was simultaneously directing the scene, in the pool in a wetsuit, and helping light the boogie board materials on fire in between takes. If that doesn\u2019t scream independent filmmaking, I don\u2019t know what does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Director Nate Trinrud immerses himself in a shot for “It’s What She Would Have Wanted”<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Part of the beauty of independent filmmaking is making the most of what you have on hand. If we had a bigger budget, we may have foregone filming at my old house altogether, but I am so glad we did because it brought so many authentic touches to the film that would have been impossible to manufacture. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also Read:<\/strong> It’s My First Time On A Film Set \u2014 and I\u2019m Directing Legends<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The house was already filled with mementos that screamed teenage girl growing up in the ’90s \u2013 beanie babies, horse figurines, worn-out notebooks. These touches added so much to the film and we hope gives the audience a sense of who Deb was and the girl her friends all loved. The house really became a character in and of itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For me and my mother personally, it\u2019s an absolute joy to go back and watch the film because it serves as a little time capsule for us and our much-loved former home.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2014Apoorva Gundeti contributed to this piece.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIt\u2019s What She Would Have Wanted,\u201d was written by Marie Semla, directed by Nate Trinrud (\u201cSchool Spirits\u201d<\/a>), and executive produced and co-created by Desiree Staples. It was selected to be a part of the 2021 Tribeca Creator\u2019s Market and has now joined the OMELETO<\/a> platform (which has over three million subscribers). It is available to watch here<\/a><\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Desiree Staples is the executive producer, co-creator and a star of “It’s What She Would Have Wanted.” Below, she describes","protected":false},"author":1844,"featured_media":1161853,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable_comments":false,"cm_data":"","cpt_newsletter_id":0,"tpd_coauthor":[],"tpd_feed_delay":[],"is_tpd_lists_single_post":false,"tpd_featured_posts_arr":"","tpd_franchise_content":"","hide_featured_img_single_post":false,"msn_featured_video":[],"_msn_custom_title":"","tpd_featured_video":[],"tpd_sponsored_post_logo":"","tpd_sponsored_post_logo_link":"","tpd_sponsored_post_logo_width":0,"tpd_sponsored_enable_nofollow":true,"tpd_disable_incontent_ads":false,"tpd_disable_right_rail_ads":false,"tpd_disable_after_content_ads":false,"tpd_disable_header_ads":false,"tpd_disable_sticky_footer_ads":false,"tpd_disable_video_ads":false,"tpd_disable_outbrain":false,"tpd_affiliate_disclaimer":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[4511,4515],"tags":[40901,40902,40903,6463],"coauthor":[],"feeds":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1161823","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-acting","8":"category-producing","9":"tag-apoorva-gundeti","10":"tag-desiree-staples","11":"tag-its-what-she-would-have-wanted","12":"tag-location-scouting"},"thumbnail":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Des_Main-428x208.jpg","fimg_url_thumb":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Des_Main-428x208.jpg","fimg_url":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Des_Main-788x444.jpg","author_name":"Desiree Staples","author_avatar":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/da04e70c77f69be53df7fe98505497007b7f03dd27ac07388c624e2acdc39b8d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","author_link":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/author\/desiree-staples\/","coauthors":[],"primary_category":{"term_id":4511,"name":"Acting","slug":"acting","taxonomy":"category","url":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/category\/archives\/moviemaking\/acting\/"},"featured_img_medium":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Des_Main-788x444.jpg","post_categories":["Acting"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1161823","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1844"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1161823"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1161823\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1161853"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1161823"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1161823"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1161823"},{"taxonomy":"coauthor","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthor?post=1161823"},{"taxonomy":"feeds","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.moviemaker.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/feeds?post=1161823"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}